Marriage and Gardens

August 18, 1967 was my wedding day. I miss my beloved every day.  We celebrated 47 anniversaries and were getting close to 48. I am thankful for every year we had together, even the hard years. We took a while to grow up, but we did, and God held us together.

Wayne and I enjoyed our gardens every summer. He would help with the vegetable garden and I took care of the flowers except for his roses, which he did. I’ve struggled to keep the rose bushes thriving. Some years they do well, other years, not so much. He had ordered them for our new place and they arrived after his death.

These are last summer’s pictures.

It’s interesting that Solomon refers to gardens in his Song of Songs. He and his beloved must have enjoyed God’s creation of flowers.

Here are a couple examples:

“My lover is mine and I am his; he browses among the lilies, until the day breaks and the shadows flee, turn, my lover, and be like a gazelle or like a young stag on the rugged hills” (Song of Songs 2:16-17).

“Awake, north wind, and come, south wind! Blow on my garden, that its fragrance may spread abroad. Let my lover come into his garden and taste its choice fruits” (Song of Songs 4:16).

A few more flowers and creatures.

A preying mantis with moss rose and a bit of clover.

Butterfly on zinnia.

Butterflies on milkweed.

When worries or loneliness want to take over my days I find comfort in God’s beautiful creation and in the promises of His word.

“And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these” (Matthew 6:28-29).

Family Reunion

I attended the Sipes Family Reunion last Saturday. We had twice as many present as we had last year. Eighteen of us gathered at a state park to remember our heritage and to visit with each other. Most of us see each other only once a year.

Last year, my 95-year-old dad was with eight of us cousins.  This year it was only cousins. My dad was the last of that generation. It’s a sad thought, but our day was brightened by the presence of the newest member of our family!  One of my cousin’s attended along with her daughter and newest granddaughter-only a week old! What a beautiful baby and I was most grateful for the reminder of new life. As long as the earth endures there will be deaths and births.

Life is fragile, especially during this season of time. So many are living in fear of the unknown, unable to distinguish truth and propaganda. Jeremiah, the prophet, met with opposition from the false prophet, Hananiah. Jeremiah told him, “The Lord has not sent you, yet you have persuaded this nation to trust in lies” (Jeremiah 28:15).  Is our Nation trusting in lies or the Word of God?

Some days, I feel despair. Yet, when I look at the Word, God gives hope. Even in Jeremiah’s day, with destruction and captivity imminent, God gave the people hope for the future. He promised in 70 years He would bring His people back. (Jeremiah 29:10-11) He also promised a new covenant. Jesus would come to establish this new covenant through His death, burial, and resurrection.

“For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more” (Jeremiah 31:34c).

Having a relationship with Jesus helps us rise above our fears. We have the promise of a better future, which helps us endure our trials here on earth. I’m leaning hard on Jesus and His promises.

“They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away” (Revelation 21:3-4).

Won’t that be a wonderful family reunion!!